Comments on: Funny FaceBook spam! http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/ Tom Raftery, social media consultant, speaker, blogger and podcaster Wed, 25 Aug 2010 13:33:09 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8 hourly 1 By: Andrey http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-419986 Andrey Mon, 03 Aug 2009 04:52:25 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-419986 If you want to say some nice words to your friends, then it's not a spam, though, it seems something like that If you want to say some nice words to your friends, then it’s not a spam, though, it seems something like that

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By: sshwepps http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-412753 sshwepps Mon, 15 Jun 2009 03:38:32 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-412753 Hi Tom You were on the friends' list of Chris, the webinar was related to online branding, and you blog about social media, so how come the invite was a spam? I am sorry Tom you it wrong here. If you were writing on UFOs and you got the invite for this webinar, yes it was a spam but in the present circumstances it is not. In any case this particular post has given me excellent material for a case study which I will take up with Dave Evans whose workshop on social media marketing I am going to attend this month in India. Considering the fact that he is an expert, his insights should give throw some interesting facts. Hi Tom

You were on the friends’ list of Chris, the webinar was related to online branding, and you blog about social media, so how come the invite was a spam? I am sorry Tom you it wrong here. If you were writing on UFOs and you got the invite for this webinar, yes it was a spam but in the present circumstances it is not.

In any case this particular post has given me excellent material for a case study which I will take up with Dave Evans whose workshop on social media marketing I am going to attend this month in India. Considering the fact that he is an expert, his insights should give throw some interesting facts.

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By: mamur (Mamur Mustapha) http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-403967 mamur (Mamur Mustapha) Wed, 27 May 2009 01:28:07 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-403967 <strong>Twitter Comment</strong> <a href="http://twitter.com/mamur" title="Twitter Comment" rel="nofollow"> <div title="mamur (Mamur Mustapha)" style="float:left;margin-right:10px;padding:0;width:60px;height:60px;background:url(http://www.tomrafteryit.net/wp-content/plugins/chatcatcher/picbg.jpg) no-repeat top;cursor:hand;"> </div> <div title="mamur (Mamur Mustapha)" style="float:left;margin-left:-70px;margin-right:10px;padding:0;width:60px;height:60px;background:url(http://purl.org/net/spiurl/mamur) no-repeat top;cursor:hand;"> </div> </a> Reading: "Funny #FaceBook spam!" ( [link to post] )<br /><br /> - Posted using Chat Catcher Twitter Comment


Reading: “Funny #FaceBook spam!” ( [link to post] )

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By: Mohinder Klafim http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-401187 Mohinder Klafim Wed, 20 May 2009 22:39:17 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-401187 That's the reason I stopped login in to facebook,It begins with nice friend adding, chatting, viewing pictures, then thos mass application requests and harrasements, and then you begin getting your "inbox" in facebook and also email blasted with so called "invitation". Thats the problems of success and greed. That’s the reason I stopped login in to facebook,It begins with nice friend adding, chatting, viewing pictures, then thos mass application requests and harrasements, and then you begin getting your “inbox” in facebook and also email blasted with so called “invitation”. Thats the problems of success and greed.

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By: Ronan Gallagher http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-400846 Ronan Gallagher Tue, 19 May 2009 22:58:27 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-400846 Having long ago lost any reputation I might have had, protection of same either online or offline, would be as pointless and useless for me as those penile extension spams.... Having long ago lost any reputation I might have had, protection of same either online or offline, would be as pointless and useless for me as those penile extension spams….

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By: vBSetup (Brandon Sheley) http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-400356 vBSetup (Brandon Sheley) Tue, 19 May 2009 04:00:12 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-400356 <strong>Twitter Comment</strong> <a href="http://twitter.com/vBSetup" title="Twitter Comment" rel="nofollow"> <div title="vBSetup (Brandon Sheley)" style="float:left;margin-right:10px;padding:0;width:60px;height:60px;background:url(http://www.tomrafteryit.net/wp-content/plugins/chatcatcher/picbg.jpg) no-repeat top;cursor:hand;"> </div> <div title="vBSetup (Brandon Sheley)" style="float:left;margin-left:-70px;margin-right:10px;padding:0;width:60px;height:60px;background:url(http://purl.org/net/spiurl/vBSetup) no-repeat top;cursor:hand;"> </div> </a> Funny FaceBook spam! [link to post]<br /><br /> - Posted using Chat Catcher Twitter Comment


Funny FaceBook spam! [link to post]

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By: Sachin http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-396695 Sachin Tue, 12 May 2009 15:25:55 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-396695 @ Tom - Accepting a friend request in facebook comes along with full authority to message, connect, share etc. If you choose to accept someone as friend, you did choose to receive messages from that person. So in short if a certain message offends you just let your friend know about it in person. Forget about all opt-ins or double opt-ins...Facebook doesn't work like that...it's a network of people with whom you can share. If you don't like sharing your stuff or their stuff then more caution should be exercised while accepting friends. By bringing it to your blog - What point were you trying to make? This do not affect any individual's reputation (if you thought so). People out there understand what's SPAM and what's not. Though everyone is entitled to their opinion and according to my opinion this way of throwing it in public doesn't solve your objective. @ Tom – Accepting a friend request in facebook comes along with full authority to message, connect, share etc. If you choose to accept someone as friend, you did choose to receive messages from that person. So in short if a certain message offends you just let your friend know about it in person.

Forget about all opt-ins or double opt-ins…Facebook doesn’t work like that…it’s a network of people with whom you can share. If you don’t like sharing your stuff or their stuff then more caution should be exercised while accepting friends.

By bringing it to your blog – What point were you trying to make? This do not affect any individual’s reputation (if you thought so). People out there understand what’s SPAM and what’s not.

Though everyone is entitled to their opinion and according to my opinion this way of throwing it in public doesn’t solve your objective.

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By: Tom Raftery http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-394136 Tom Raftery Wed, 06 May 2009 18:45:47 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-394136 They were stuck in my Akismet queue Chris, apologies. Published now. They were stuck in my Akismet queue Chris, apologies.

Published now.

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By: Chris Abraham http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-393587 Chris Abraham Tue, 05 May 2009 15:31:22 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-393587 I wonder why my comments don't run through :( I wonder why my comments don’t run through :(

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By: Tom Raftery http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-393586 Tom Raftery Tue, 05 May 2009 15:31:10 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-393586 Alan, I didn't and don't "blindly accept FaceBook friend requests" - I always look to see who I am accepting the request from, if I don't know them, do we have friends in common, if so, who are they? Just yesterday, I declined to follow someone because thy were pimping an unscrupulous, spamming, Irish hosting company. I agree it is harsh to call someone out if undeserved but what makes you think my complaint isn't substantial or that I didn't do basic research? Stevie, you are absolutely correct to say that: "Getting someone to understand HOW to protect their brand is hugely important" - I think Chris and Jay should be more protective of <em>their brands</em> by not spamming people on FaceBook Alan, I didn’t and don’t “blindly accept FaceBook friend requests” – I always look to see who I am accepting the request from, if I don’t know them, do we have friends in common, if so, who are they? Just yesterday, I declined to follow someone because thy were pimping an unscrupulous, spamming, Irish hosting company.

I agree it is harsh to call someone out if undeserved but what makes you think my complaint isn’t substantial or that I didn’t do basic research?

Stevie, you are absolutely correct to say that:
“Getting someone to understand HOW to protect their brand is hugely important”
- I think Chris and Jay should be more protective of their brands by not spamming people on FaceBook

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By: chrisabraham (Chris Abraham) http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-393585 chrisabraham (Chris Abraham) Tue, 05 May 2009 15:30:51 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-393585 <strong>FriendFeed Comment</strong> <a href="http://friendfeed.com/chrisabraham" title="FriendFeed Comment" rel="nofollow"> <div title="chrisabraham (Chris Abraham)" style="float:left;margin-right:10px;padding:0;width:60px;height:60px;background:url(http://www.tomrafteryit.net/wp-content/plugins/chatcatcher/picbg.jpg) no-repeat top;cursor:hand;"> </div> <div title="chrisabraham (Chris Abraham)" style="float:left;margin-left:-70px;margin-right:10px;padding:0;width:60px;height:60px;background:url(http://friendfeed.com/chrisabraham/picture?size=medium) no-repeat top;cursor:hand;"> </div> </a> @TomRaftery called me a dirty Facebook Spammer -- I have 3,915 friends, can't I invite them all? :) [link to post] http://friendfeed.com/e/0220d79e-4dff-4e11-a494-3b99ee42a55f<br /><br /> - Posted using Chat Catcher FriendFeed Comment


@TomRaftery called me a dirty Facebook Spammer — I have 3,915 friends, can’t I invite them all? :) [link to post] http://friendfeed.com/e/0220d79e-4dff-4e11-a494-3b99ee42a55f

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By: Phillip Rhoades http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-393583 Phillip Rhoades Tue, 05 May 2009 15:30:16 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-393583 Paul, "An electronic message is 'spam' IF: (1) the recipient's personal identity and context are irrelevant because the message is equally applicable to many other potential recipients; AND (2) the recipient has not verifiably granted deliberate, explicit, and still-revocable permission for it to be sent." --Spamhaus http://www.spamhaus.org/definition.html Facebook is an opt-in messaging system with an explicit opt-in and easy method of revoking that opt-in. Spam isn't spam just because someone says so, "spam" is a clearly defined term. Paul,

“An electronic message is ’spam’ IF: (1) the recipient’s personal identity and context are irrelevant because the message is equally applicable to many other potential recipients; AND (2) the recipient has not verifiably granted deliberate, explicit, and still-revocable permission for it to be sent.” –Spamhaus http://www.spamhaus.org/definition.html

Facebook is an opt-in messaging system with an explicit opt-in and easy method of revoking that opt-in. Spam isn’t spam just because someone says so, “spam” is a clearly defined term.

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By: Chris Abraham http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-393582 Chris Abraham Tue, 05 May 2009 15:30:00 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-393582 I keep on trying to post my own comment! Why doesn't it post? I am always happy to receive email from you and blog posts. I have almost 4,000 friends on Facebook, so inviting my friends to my events doesn't seem like spam at all to me. In Facebook, you cannot actually invite anyone who is not explicitly connected to you. So, this month, I am offering a series of 3 free webinars -- for free, mind you -- that I would love my friends to attend. Am I being aggressive? Well, yes; however, over 340 folks registered to attend my last Twitter for Business webinar, so I don't think it is much of a problem. I am sorry to have lost you as a friend, but I am happy to be blogged about, even in this situation, because I know for a fact that when you're connected via Facebook, it is surely a double-opt-in situation where I am surely allowed to message my Facebook friends, especially if it is to invite them to something for free that could actually save them a lot of money and a lot of trouble. Thanks for emailing me and giving me a heads-up for this article -- I appreciate it! I keep on trying to post my own comment! Why doesn’t it post?

I am always happy to receive email from you and blog posts. I have almost 4,000 friends on Facebook, so inviting my friends to my events doesn’t seem like spam at all to me. In Facebook, you cannot actually invite anyone who is not explicitly connected to you. So, this month, I am offering a series of 3 free webinars — for free, mind you — that I would love my friends to attend. Am I being aggressive? Well, yes; however, over 340 folks registered to attend my last Twitter for Business webinar, so I don’t think it is much of a problem. I am sorry to have lost you as a friend, but I am happy to be blogged about, even in this situation, because I know for a fact that when you’re connected via Facebook, it is surely a double-opt-in situation where I am surely allowed to message my Facebook friends, especially if it is to invite them to something for free that could actually save them a lot of money and a lot of trouble. Thanks for emailing me and giving me a heads-up for this article — I appreciate it!

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By: Paul M. Watson http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-393578 Paul M. Watson Tue, 05 May 2009 15:25:16 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-393578 Spam is in the eye of the beholder. Male phallic enlargement emails may be a god send to some and a PITA to others. Chris could have vetted his recipient list better. Spam is in the eye of the beholder. Male phallic enlargement emails may be a god send to some and a PITA to others. Chris could have vetted his recipient list better.

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By: Stevie Wilson http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-393571 Stevie Wilson Tue, 05 May 2009 15:02:30 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-393571 Given that you can choose to delete the post without reading it-- and I delete a number of posts on facebook that I can TELL from the headline I don't want to read, it's totally your choice to read it or not. I happened to be listen- and learn -- something from the last webinar last week and I passed it on to clients.. in fact I am printing out parts to give them to read because they *NEED* to read it. I totally understand your feeling of spamming but if I had something going on that I was providing 411 for FREE in terms of a seminar and the person didn't have to leave their desk, I would be all for it. I am not saying you aren't entitled to your opinion-- just that there are a number of people on Chris Abraham's list who would and do want to hear this stuff . Getting someone to understand HOW to protect their brand is hugely important and a relevant one based on one of my current clients Given that you can choose to delete the post without reading it– and I delete a number of posts on facebook that I can TELL from the headline I don’t want to read, it’s totally your choice to read it or not.
I happened to be listen- and learn — something from the last webinar last week and I passed it on to clients.. in fact I am printing out parts to give them to read because they *NEED* to read it.

I totally understand your feeling of spamming but if I had something going on that I was providing 411 for FREE in terms of a seminar and the person didn’t have to leave their desk, I would be all for it.

I am not saying you aren’t entitled to your opinion– just that there are a number of people on Chris Abraham’s list who would and do want to hear this stuff . Getting someone to understand HOW to protect their brand is hugely important and a relevant one based on one of my current clients

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By: AlanIsGood http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-393550 AlanIsGood Tue, 05 May 2009 14:05:06 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-393550 Doesn't spam have to be both unsolicited and bulk? I think that blindly accepting Facebook friend requests removes the unsolicited from the equation. At the very least you can always look someone up and investigate what their angle may be in adding you. I've foolishly added random friends and then received messages selling me books and web marketing kits. Some of them constantly send me invites to the weekend club parties happening. I consider those examples far closer to spam AND far more deserving of being called out than I would Chris' webinar. Calling someone out in the 'blogosphere' is awesome when warranted, but it's the crier's black eye when the complaint isn't substantial or fleshed out with even basic research. It's a harsher than spam to call someone out personally in an unsolicited and bulk manner, is it not? Doesn’t spam have to be both unsolicited and bulk? I think that blindly accepting Facebook friend requests removes the unsolicited from the equation. At the very least you can always look someone up and investigate what their angle may be in adding you.

I’ve foolishly added random friends and then received messages selling me books and web marketing kits. Some of them constantly send me invites to the weekend club parties happening. I consider those examples far closer to spam AND far more deserving of being called out than I would Chris’ webinar.

Calling someone out in the ‘blogosphere’ is awesome when warranted, but it’s the crier’s black eye when the complaint isn’t substantial or fleshed out with even basic research. It’s a harsher than spam to call someone out personally in an unsolicited and bulk manner, is it not?

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By: Paul M. Watson http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-393540 Paul M. Watson Tue, 05 May 2009 13:39:33 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-393540 If one person thinks its spam, it's spam. You can call it whatever you want, opt-in advertising junk, opt-in special love $5 dollar. Whatever. It is spam. (And as Tom points out the invite is for "look after your online reputation" which is exactly what the invite has corrupted; Chris Abraham's online reputation.) If one person thinks its spam, it’s spam. You can call it whatever you want, opt-in advertising junk, opt-in special love $5 dollar. Whatever. It is spam.

(And as Tom points out the invite is for “look after your online reputation” which is exactly what the invite has corrupted; Chris Abraham’s online reputation.)

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By: chrisabraham (Chris Abraham) http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-393531 chrisabraham (Chris Abraham) Tue, 05 May 2009 13:26:26 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-393531 <strong>Twitter Comment</strong> <a href="http://twitter.com/chrisabraham" title="Twitter Comment" rel="nofollow"> <div title="chrisabraham (Chris Abraham)" style="float:left;margin-right:10px;padding:0;width:60px;height:60px;background:url(http://www.tomrafteryit.net/wp-content/plugins/chatcatcher/picbg.jpg) no-repeat top;cursor:hand;"> </div> <div title="chrisabraham (Chris Abraham)" style="float:left;margin-left:-70px;margin-right:10px;padding:0;width:60px;height:60px;background:url(http://purl.org/net/spiurl/chrisabraham) no-repeat top;cursor:hand;"> </div> </a> @TomRaftery called me a dirty Facebook Spammer -- I have 3,915 friends, can't I invite them all? :) [link to post]<br /><br /> - Posted using Chat Catcher Twitter Comment


@TomRaftery called me a dirty Facebook Spammer — I have 3,915 friends, can’t I invite them all? :) [link to post]

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By: Phillip Rhoades http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-393529 Phillip Rhoades Tue, 05 May 2009 13:17:59 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-393529 Opt-in lists (and facebook is an opt-in list) are by definition not spam. You can always choose to opt-out. Opt-in lists (and facebook is an opt-in list) are by definition not spam. You can always choose to opt-out.

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By: Dan http://www.tomrafteryit.net/funny-facebook-spam/comment-page-1/#comment-393527 Dan Tue, 05 May 2009 13:16:33 +0000 http://www.tomrafteryit.net/?p=1555#comment-393527 Why is this spam? He must have thought that as one of his friends you might be interested in attending the webinar. Facebook does allow you to unfriend people very easily. I get tons of lil green patch requests, mob wars, etc. I just ignore them or remove them. Why is this spam? He must have thought that as one of his friends you might be interested in attending the webinar. Facebook does allow you to unfriend people very easily. I get tons of lil green patch requests, mob wars, etc. I just ignore them or remove them.

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